341; Avoid extremes (Franklin), 378. See, also, Temperance. Modesty Life is hard for a modest man (Dhammapada), 84; The most pleasing thing on earth (Ahikar), 105; Be modest, for it is reasonable (Thomas à Kempis), 203; Be modest in discourse... Let thy looks be modest (Mexican precept), 222, 223, 226; Be modest in each assembly (Sidney), 247. See, also, Chastity, Ribaldry. Montaigne.
all (Jesus), 132; Avoid swearing, if pos- sible, altogether (Epictetus), 152. Obedience to authority (Ptah-hotep), 34; Unless you feel what obedience is you shall never teach others to obey (Sidney), 246.
Obscenity. See Ribaldry.
Observation: He that lives long and sees much, but observes nothing, shall never prove a wise man (Essex-Bacon), 278. Obstinacy. See Stubborness, Firmness.
On the cultivation of life, Occupation. - Business: Do not make a
Moroseness. See Good nature, Anger. Mosaic Commandments, 4, 5, 41, 44. Mother, Duty towards a. See Filial Duty. Motives: We should often be ashamed of our best actions if the world saw all the motives (La Rochefoucauld), 312. Murder, Thou shalt do no (Decalogue), 42; The Lord hateth hands that shed inno- cent blood (Proverbs), 51; One should not take life (Buddha), 78; Poison no one (Mexican precept), 222.
Music: Abstain from (Buddhist com- mandments), 78.
business of what is no business (Gracian), 286; Choose God's trades [agricultural and pastoral] before men's (Penn), 332; Endeavor to be first in thy calling, whatever it be (Chesterfield), 362; Let eminence in your profession be your ambition (Washington), 398; What thou best canst understand is just the thing lies nearest to thy hand (Goethe), 417; The high prize of life is to be born with a bias to some pursuit (Emerson), 457. Old age: The bodily decay of age (Ptah- hotep), 32. See, also, Youth.
Old Men's Dialogue, The, 211. Oldest book in the world, The, 1, 32.
Needy, Treatment of the: See Giving, Opinion: Despise not one who differs in
Neighbors. Fellowship. tionship: Be not irritable towards thy neighbor (Ptah-hotep), 36; Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself (Leviticus), 45; Devise not evil against thy neigh- bor.... He that despiseth his neigh- bor is void of wisdom. Let thy feet be seldom in thy neighbor's house, &c. (Proverbs), 49, 52, 56; The good neigh- bor is our prop and stay (Hesiod), 74; The golden rule of conduct towards a neighbor (Maha-bharata), 97; We are made for co-operation, like feet, like hands, &c. To act against one another is contrary to nature (Marcus Aurelius), 157, 158; Thy food, clothing, protection, &c., thou owest to the assist- ance of others. . . . It is thy duty there- fore to be a friend to mankind (Chester- field), 364.
Niggardliness. See Expenditure, Giving. No, Saying. See Refusing. Non-resistance. See Retaliation.
Oath, Making: He that sweareth to his own hurt (Psalm), 46, 410; Swear not at
opinion (Ptah-hotep), 34; Many are de- ceived by their own vain opinion (Ec- clesiasticus), 114; Gather an heap of good opinions. . . as it were on your fingers' ends (Wyatt), 236; Be not light to follow every man's opinion, neither obstinate in your own conceit (Lyly), 262, 263; Think with the few, and speak with the many (Gracian), 285; Shun fantastic opinions (Penn), 333.
Opinion, Public: Do nothing because of
public opinion, but everything because of conscience (Seneca), 141. Opportunity: He who lets slip an oppor- tunity finds not again the fitting time (Maha-bharata), 97; Observe the oppor- tunity (Ecclesiasticus), 115; We should not always wait for occasions, but some- times challenge them (Bacon), 268; Op- portunity should never be lost, &c. (Penn), 329.
Oppression: Thou shalt not oppress thy neighbor (Leviticus), 44; He that op- presseth the poor reproacheth his Maker (Proverbs), 54; One higher than the high regardeth . the oppression of the poor and the violent taking away of
judgment (Ecclesiastes), 59. See, also, Justice.
Order.-Method.-System: Never neglect the duty of the present hour to do an- other thing (Halifax), 318; Draw your affairs into as narrow a compass as you can, and in method and proportion. Divide your day, &c. (Penn), 331, 333; Let all things have their places; each part of business its time (Franklin), 377, 379, 384; Order is to arrangement what soul is to body and mind to matter (Jou- bert), 419.
Osborne, Francis. Selections from "Advice to a Son," 294.
Ostentation of piety and good works: Do not your righteousness before men. . . Let not thy left hand know, &c. . . When thou prayest enter thy inner chamber (Jesus), 132, 133; Be a hider of virtue as other be of vice (Rhodes), 208; Be not the trumpet of your own charity (Osborne), 295; Do what good thou canst unknown (Penn), 329; The man whose virtues are more felt than seen (Cowper), 396.
Parental duty: Bring up a son who shall be pleasing to God. . . . Train thy son to be a teachable man (Ptah-hotep), 35, 39; I reckon it no small dishonesty to myself to have an unhonest taught child (Wyatt), 236; Bring thy children up in learning and obedience, yet without out- ward austerity (Burleigh), 240, 241; Eu- phues and his Euphoebus (Lyly), 260; Have as strict a guard upon yourself amongst your children as amongst your enemies (Halifax), 317; It is not how we leave our children, but what we leave them. . . . Love them with wisdom, cor- rect them with affection. . . . Punish more by their understandings than the rod (Penn), 328, 336, 337. See, also, Edu- cation, Marriage. Parents, Duty towards. See Filial duty. Parsimony. See Expenditure, Avarice. Passion. See Anger, Self-control. Passions Restrain thy passions (Manu), 66; It is more painful to be subservient to passions than to tyrants. many passions, so many despots (Pythag- oras), 91, 92; Physic hath not more medicines against diseases of the body than reason hath preservatives against
passions of the mind (Essex-Bacon), 272; The passions have an injustice and an in- terest of their own (La Rochefoucauld), 310; Passion is a sort of fever... cur- able with care (Penn), 329; The passions may all become innocent if well directed (Joubert), 418. See, also, Self-control. Pastime. See Pleasure. Patience. Constancy : The patient in spirit is better than the proud (Ecclesi- astes), 60; With patience bear reviling language. Included in the tenfold summary of duty (Manu), 65, 70; To be long-suffering, the greatest blessing (Buddha), 80; With patience bear the lot to thee assigned (Pythagoras), 87; Bear railing words with patience (Maha- bharata), 96; Everything has two handles, one by which it may be borne, the other by which it cannot (Epictetus), 153; Ever keep patience (Wyclif), 197; Without knowledge there can be no con- stancy or patience (Essex-Bacon), 275; Be able to wait (Gracian), 285; If you cannot imitate Job, yet come not short of Socrates (Browne), 302; A man who is,master of patience is master of every- thing (Halifax), 316; Be patient, but not insensible.... Patience and diligence, like faith, remove mountains. . . . Pa- tience is an effect of a meek spirit (Penn), 327, 328, 337; Take things always by their smooth handle (Jefferson), 411; Imitate time; it destroys slowly (Jou- bert), 419. See, also, Fortitude. Peacemaking. See Contention. Penance Think not to hide thy guilt un- der a cloak of penance (Manu), 66. Penitence. Repentance: Be not ashamed to confess thy sins. . . . Reproach not a man that turneth from sin (Ecclesias- ticus), 115, 119; Amendment is repent- ance (Penn), 329; Repentance is ac- cepted remorse (Swetchine), 437; We have two great virtues to acquire, humil- ity and penance (Lacordaire), 453. Penn, William. Selections from his "Fruits of Solitude," and from his "Advice to his Children," 25-27, 326, 330. Performance. See Doing. Periander, saying of, 76.
Persecution: Blessed they that have been persecuted for righteousness' sake. . . . Pray for them that persecute you (Jesus), 130, 132.
Perseverance.-Persistence: Strive to com- plete the task commenced. . . . Seek fortune with persistency till death (Manu), 68; Force falls to the lot only of the privileged few, but perseverance can be practiced by the most insignifi- cant (Swetchine), 438; Theories and plans of life are fair and commendable (Emerson), 459.
Personal adornment. See Dress. Persuasion: Sweet persuasion wins the easy to believe (Pythagoras), 87. See, also, Firmness.
Petitioners: Give respectful hearing to petitioners (Ptah-hotep), 35; The man of sin is he confessed who spurns the sup- pliant (Hesiod), 73.
Piety. See Religious injunctions. Pitt, William, Earl of Chatham, Letters to his nephew, 387.
Pittacus, saying of, 76.
Pity. See Benevolence, Mercy, Cruelty. Pleasure. Amusement. Recreation. - Diversions: He who amuses himself all day long keeps not his fortune (Ptah- hotep), 38; He that loveth pleasure shall be a poor man (Proverbs), 55; A man hath no better thing than to eat, drink, and be merry (Ecclesiastes), 61; Abstain from dancing, music, singing and stage plays (Buddhist commandments), 78; He who lives without looking for pleasure, Mâra will not overthrow. Leave the small pleasure and look to the great (Dhammapada), 82, 84; Impossible to be a lover of pleasure and a lover of Divin- ity (Pythagoras), 93, 94; Guard most carefully against pleasure, because we are not impartial judges of it (Aristotle), 111; He that denies himself lawful plea- sures increases the surety of resisting the unlawful (Thomas à Kempis), 202; Look upon pain and pleasure with an eye equally regular (Montaigne), 251; Use pastime as the word importeth (Lyly), 262; If thou desire time should not pass too fast, use not too much pastime Let recreation be manly, moderate, seasonable, lawful (Quarles), 282, 290; Spill not the morning in recreations; for sleep itself is a recreation (Fuller), 307; To turn our whole life into a holi- day destroyeth pleasure (Halifax), 320; A mastery of passions will afford a con- stant pleasure greater than vicious en- joyments (Locke), 323; Such diversions
as are merely innocent, and have no- thing else to recommend them, are be- low reasonable creatures (Addison), 354; The love of pleasure is sure to enslave whoever does not resist the first allure- ments (Chatham), 387; The happy man o'erlooks the world. She scorns his pleasures, for she knows them not (Cow- per), 394; What amusements are to be taken, and when, is the great matter.
Let your recreations be manful, not sinful (Washington), 400, 404; Little joys refresh us constantly like house-bread (Richter), 426; Not pleasure, but free- dom from pain, is what the wise man will aim at (Schopenhauer), 442; Indulge in lawful pleasures of mind, heart, or senses with gratitude and moderation (Lacordaire), 453. See, also, Happiness, Merriment.
Pole, William de la, Duke of Suffolk. Let- ter to his son, 200.
Politeness. See Courtesy, Manners. Political duty: Promptly pay your taxes (Confucius), 101; It is as hard to be a true politician as to be truly moral (Bacon), 265; Meddle not with govern- ment (Penn), 335; Mitigating the fierce- ness of party is an employment suited to a reasonable nature (Addison), 353; Love your neighbor as yourself, and your coun- try more (Jefferson), 410. Polonius to Laertes, 281.
Poor, Treatment of the. See Giving Be- nevolence, Mercy, Oppression. Pope, Alexander. The happy man, 145. Popularity. See Reputation. Poverty. See Riches. Practice. Praise. See Flattery, Censure. Prayer. See Religious injunctions Prejudice. See Sincerity.
no man's folly and ignorance (Rhodes), 207, 208; Contemn no poor man, mock no simple man (Ascham), 219; Be not haughty towards the old, the infirm, &c.
tremble lest you be as unfortunate (Mexican precept), 222, 226; If thou seest anything in thyself which may make thee proud, look a little further, &c. (Quarles), 292; Shun pride and base- ness, tutors to contempt, of yourself and others (Osborne), 294; A truly virtuous man prides himself on nothing (La Rochefoucauld), 311; One kind of pride is as much a virtue as the other is a vice (Halifax), 319; Have courage to speak to a friend in a seedy coat.... To own that you are poor to laugh at your personal defects. ... to wear your old garments, &c. (Stanislaus), 357, 358; Pride costs more than hunger, thirst, and cold (Jefferson), 411; A great mistake: to hold oneself too high and rate oneself too cheap (Goethe), 414; We have two great vices to beat down, pride and sen- suality (Lacordaire), 453. See, also, Hu- mility.
Privacy He lives happily that lives hid- denly or privately. . . . It doubles man's life (Penn), 334; The happy man. . . doomed to an obscure but tranquil state, is pleased with it (Cowper), 394. Profanity: Thou shalt not take the name of the Lord thy God in vain (Decalogue), 42; Ye shall not swear by my name (Leviticus), 44; Buddhistic command against, 79; Beware of cursing (Wyclif), 197; Let never oath be heard to come out of your mouth (Sidney),"247. Profusion. See Expenditure. Promises: He that sweareth to his own
hurt and changeth not (Psalm), 46, 411; Pay that which thou vowest (Ecclesi- astes), 58; Let not bill, witness, or pos- session be stronger in your sight than a promise by word of mouth (Maimonides), 167; Rarely promise, constantly perform (Penn), 328; Undertake not what you
cannot perform, but be careful to keep your promise (Washington), 404. Prosperity. — Adversity. - Fortune: Be- havior in prosperity (Ptah-hotep), 38; In the day of prosperity be joyful, and in the day of adversity consider: God hath made the one side by side with the other.... The race is not to the swift. Remember the days of darkness (Ecclesiastes), 61, 62; Whether fortune comes or goes take no notice of her (Seneca), 141; If God send adversity, accept it patiently. If prosperity, thank him humbly (St. Louis), 174; So use prosperity that adversity may not abuse thee. Seest thou good days? prepare for evil times (Quarles), 290, 292; It requires greater virtues to sup- port good than bad fortune (La Roche- foucauld), 310. See, also, Fortune. Proverbs, selections from the Book of, 5, 6, 47. Prudence. Forethought. Reckless- ness Let wary thought each enterprise forerun.... After long consultation, en- gage in speaking or acting (Pythagoras), 88,90; Whatsoever thou takest in hand, remember the end. . . . Go not in a way wherein thou mayest fall... Put all in writing (Ecclesiasticus), 118, 124, 125; The prudent man thinks before he acts (Thomas à Kempis), 203; Accustom the mind to judge the proportion and value of things. . . . Beware of being carried to things beyond our strength. ...Do not engage too peremptorily in anything (Bacon), 268, 269; Do not de- spise an evil because it is small. . . . Have no days of carelessness; destiny loves to play tricks. . . . Look into the inside of things. Keep always some- thing behind in store (Gracian), 287; Wise venturing is the most commend- able part of prudence (Halifax), 315; Have courage to be content with small profits (Stanislaus), 358; Use not to- day what to-morrow may want (Chester- field), 363; What we plan, what we un- dertake, should be so clearly mapped out, &c. . . . Distinguish between what is attainable and what is not (Goethe), 414, 415; Better debate a question with- out settling it than settle it without de- bate (Joubert), 419; To do what we do carelessly is to lose time inevitably (Swet-
chine), 438; May prudence, fortitude, and truth, erect your brow (Burns), 423; Prudence is at the beginning of all the cardinal virtues (Lacordaire), 452. Psalm, The Fifteenth, 46, 410. Ptah-hotep, the precepts of, 1, 32. Public opinion. See Opinion, public. Punctuality: A necessary part of good manners is a punctual observance of time (Swift), 350.
Purity. See Chastity.
Purpose: The masterpiece of man is to know how to live to purpose (Montaigne), 250; Imitate nature, which does nothing in vain (Bacon), 269; Be busy to pur- pose; for a busy man and a man of busi- ness are two different things (Penn), 340; Let every man ask himself with which of his faculties he can somehow influence his age (Goethe), 416; The hero is he who is immovably centred (Emerson),
ing art is oft an erring guide. using reason as guide you will avoid crimes (Pythagoras), 87, 92; Socrates became perfect, improving himself by everything, attending to nothing but rea- son (Epictetus), 153; If thou findest anything better than thy own mind's self-satisfaction in things done according to right reason, turn to it (Marcus Aure- lius), 159; I will employ my life in cul- tivating my reason and advancing in the knowledge of truth (Descartes), 298; He
that doth not use his reason is a tame beast; he that abuses it is a wild one (Halifax), 316; Let memory fail so long as you can rely on your judgment (Goe- the), 415; Whose law is reason; who depends upon that law (Wordsworth),
Rebuke. See Reproof. Recklessness. Recreation. See Pleasure.
See Prudence.
Refinement: Judge refinement by the test of conscience. . . What is base no
polish can make sterling (Cowper), 396. See, also, Taste.
Reformation. See Self-improvement, Self- control.
Refusing: A gilded No satisfies more than
a dry Yes (Gracian), 285.
Regret: Let the past be past forever (Goethe), 416.
Religious injunctions: (Decalogue), 42; (Leviticus), 44; (Proverbs), 48; (Eccle- siastes), 58, 62, 63; (Manu), 66, 67, 70; (Hesiod), 73; (Buddha), 80; (Pythag- oras), 86, 91; (Ahikar), 105; (Ecclesi- asticus), 117, 125; (Jesus), 133, 134, 135; (Welsh Triads), 171; (St. Louis), 174; (La Tour), 190; (Wyclif), 195; (Suffolk), 200; (Ascham), 219; (Mexican), 222; (Wyatt), 231, 233, 236; (Burleigh), 239; (Sidney), 245; (Raleigh), 258; (Lyly), 263; (Essex-Bacon), 275: (Wotton), 283; (Quarles), 291; (Browne), 300; (Penn), 330, 332, 333, 336; (Fénelon), 343; (Addi- son), 353; (Stanislaus), 358; (Edwards), 366-374; (Franklin), 382; (Chatham), 389, 390; (Jefferson), 410; (Burns), 422, 423; (Lacordaire), 453-454. See, also, Profanity, Commandments.
monition: Better the rebuke of the wise than the song of fools (Ecclesiastes), 60; Take rebuke patiently (Rhodes), 207; Take all admonitions thankfully (Wash- ington), 403. See, also, Correction. Reputation. Popularity: A good name better than precious ointment (Ecclesi- astes), 59; Get the love of the congre- gation (Ecclesiasticus), 115; I advise thee not to affect or neglect popularity too much (Burleigh), 243; Popularity is a crime from the moment it is sought. The invisible thing called a good
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