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341; Avoid extremes (Franklin), 378.
See, also, Temperance.
Modesty Life is hard for a modest man
(Dhammapada), 84; The most pleasing
thing on earth (Ahikar), 105; Be modest,
for it is reasonable (Thomas à Kempis),
203; Be modest in discourse... Let thy
looks be modest (Mexican precept), 222,
223, 226; Be modest in each assembly
(Sidney), 247. See, also, Chastity,
Ribaldry.
Montaigne.

249.

all (Jesus), 132; Avoid swearing, if pos-
sible, altogether (Epictetus), 152.
Obedience to authority (Ptah-hotep), 34;
Unless you feel what obedience is you
shall never teach others to obey (Sidney),
246.

Obscenity. See Ribaldry.

Observation: He that lives long and sees
much, but observes nothing, shall never
prove a wise man (Essex-Bacon), 278.
Obstinacy. See Stubborness, Firmness.

On the cultivation of life, Occupation. - Business: Do not make a

Moroseness. See Good nature, Anger.
Mosaic Commandments, 4, 5, 41, 44.
Mother, Duty towards a. See Filial Duty.
Motives: We should often be ashamed of
our best actions if the world saw all the
motives (La Rochefoucauld), 312.
Murder, Thou shalt do no (Decalogue), 42;
The Lord hateth hands that shed inno-
cent blood (Proverbs), 51; One should
not take life (Buddha), 78; Poison no
one (Mexican precept), 222.

Music: Abstain from (Buddhist com-
mandments), 78.

business of what is no business (Gracian),
286; Choose God's trades [agricultural
and pastoral] before men's (Penn),
332; Endeavor to be first in thy calling,
whatever it be (Chesterfield), 362; Let
eminence in your profession be your
ambition (Washington), 398; What thou
best canst understand is just the thing
lies nearest to thy hand (Goethe), 417;
The high prize of life is to be born with
a bias to some pursuit (Emerson), 457.
Old age: The bodily decay of age (Ptah-
hotep), 32. See, also, Youth.

Old Men's Dialogue, The, 211.
Oldest book in the world, The, 1, 32.

Needy, Treatment of the: See Giving, Opinion: Despise not one who differs in

Mercy, Oppression.

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Social Rela-

Neighbors. Fellowship.
tionship: Be not irritable towards thy
neighbor (Ptah-hotep), 36; Thou shalt
love thy neighbor as thyself (Leviticus),
45; Devise not evil against thy neigh-
bor.... He that despiseth his neigh-
bor is void of wisdom. Let thy feet
be seldom in thy neighbor's house, &c.
(Proverbs), 49, 52, 56; The good neigh-
bor is our prop and stay (Hesiod), 74;
The golden rule of conduct towards a
neighbor (Maha-bharata), 97; We are
made for co-operation, like feet, like
hands, &c.
To act against one
another is contrary to nature (Marcus
Aurelius), 157, 158; Thy food, clothing,
protection, &c., thou owest to the assist-
ance of others. . . . It is thy duty there-
fore to be a friend to mankind (Chester-
field), 364.

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Niggardliness. See Expenditure, Giving.
No, Saying. See Refusing.
Non-resistance. See Retaliation.

Oath, Making: He that sweareth to his
own hurt (Psalm), 46, 410; Swear not at

opinion (Ptah-hotep), 34; Many are de-
ceived by their own vain opinion (Ec-
clesiasticus), 114; Gather an heap of
good opinions. . . as it were on your
fingers' ends (Wyatt), 236; Be not light
to follow every man's opinion, neither
obstinate in your own conceit (Lyly),
262, 263; Think with the few, and speak
with the many (Gracian), 285; Shun
fantastic opinions (Penn), 333.

Opinion, Public: Do nothing because of

public opinion, but everything because
of conscience (Seneca), 141.
Opportunity: He who lets slip an oppor-
tunity finds not again the fitting time
(Maha-bharata), 97; Observe the oppor-
tunity (Ecclesiasticus), 115; We should
not always wait for occasions, but some-
times challenge them (Bacon), 268; Op-
portunity should never be lost, &c.
(Penn), 329.

Oppression: Thou shalt not oppress thy
neighbor (Leviticus), 44; He that op-
presseth the poor reproacheth his
Maker (Proverbs), 54; One higher than
the high regardeth . the oppression of
the poor and the violent taking away of

judgment (Ecclesiastes), 59. See, also,
Justice.

Order.-Method.-System: Never neglect
the duty of the present hour to do an-
other thing (Halifax), 318; Draw your
affairs into as narrow a compass as you
can, and in method and proportion.
Divide your day, &c. (Penn), 331, 333;
Let all things have their places; each
part of business its time (Franklin), 377,
379, 384; Order is to arrangement what
soul is to body and mind to matter (Jou-
bert), 419.

Osborne, Francis. Selections from "Advice
to a Son," 294.

Ostentation of piety and good works: Do
not your righteousness before men. . .
Let not thy left hand know, &c. . .
When thou prayest enter thy inner
chamber (Jesus), 132, 133; Be a hider of
virtue as other be of vice (Rhodes), 208;
Be not the trumpet of your own charity
(Osborne), 295; Do what good thou
canst unknown (Penn), 329; The man
whose virtues are more felt than seen
(Cowper), 396.

Parental duty: Bring up a son who shall
be pleasing to God. . . . Train thy son
to be a teachable man (Ptah-hotep), 35,
39; I reckon it no small dishonesty to
myself to have an unhonest taught child
(Wyatt), 236; Bring thy children up in
learning and obedience, yet without out-
ward austerity (Burleigh), 240, 241; Eu-
phues and his Euphoebus (Lyly), 260;
Have as strict a guard upon yourself
amongst your children as amongst your
enemies (Halifax), 317; It is not how we
leave our children, but what we leave
them. . . . Love them with wisdom, cor-
rect them with affection. . . . Punish
more by their understandings than the
rod (Penn), 328, 336, 337. See, also, Edu-
cation, Marriage.
Parents, Duty towards. See Filial duty.
Parsimony. See Expenditure, Avarice.
Passion. See Anger, Self-control.
Passions Restrain thy passions (Manu),
66; It is more painful to be subservient
to passions than to tyrants.
many passions, so many despots (Pythag-
oras), 91, 92; Physic hath not more
medicines against diseases of the body
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passions of the mind (Essex-Bacon), 272;
The passions have an injustice and an in-
terest of their own (La Rochefoucauld),
310; Passion is a sort of fever... cur-
able with care (Penn), 329; The passions
may all become innocent if well directed
(Joubert), 418. See, also, Self-control.
Pastime. See Pleasure.
Patience. Constancy : The patient in
spirit is better than the proud (Ecclesi-
astes), 60; With patience bear reviling
language. Included in the tenfold
summary of duty (Manu), 65, 70; To be
long-suffering, the greatest blessing
(Buddha), 80; With patience bear the
lot to thee assigned (Pythagoras), 87;
Bear railing words with patience (Maha-
bharata), 96; Everything has two
handles, one by which it may be borne,
the other by which it cannot (Epictetus),
153; Ever keep patience (Wyclif), 197;
Without knowledge there can be no con-
stancy or patience (Essex-Bacon), 275;
Be able to wait (Gracian), 285; If you
cannot imitate Job, yet come not short
of Socrates (Browne), 302; A man who
is,master of patience is master of every-
thing (Halifax), 316; Be patient, but not
insensible.... Patience and diligence,
like faith, remove mountains. . . . Pa-
tience is an effect of a meek spirit
(Penn), 327, 328, 337; Take things always
by their smooth handle (Jefferson), 411;
Imitate time; it destroys slowly (Jou-
bert), 419. See, also, Fortitude.
Peacemaking. See Contention.
Penance Think not to hide thy guilt un-
der a cloak of penance (Manu), 66.
Penitence. Repentance: Be not ashamed
to confess thy sins. . . . Reproach not
a man that turneth from sin (Ecclesias-
ticus), 115, 119; Amendment is repent-
ance (Penn), 329; Repentance is ac-
cepted remorse (Swetchine), 437; We
have two great virtues to acquire, humil-
ity and penance (Lacordaire), 453.
Penn, William. Selections from his "Fruits
of Solitude," and from his "Advice to
his Children," 25-27, 326, 330.
Performance. See Doing.
Periander, saying of, 76.

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Persecution: Blessed they that have been
persecuted for righteousness' sake. . . .
Pray for them that persecute you (Jesus),
130, 132.

Perses, advice to, 72.

Perseverance.-Persistence: Strive to com-
plete the task commenced. . . . Seek
fortune with persistency till death
(Manu), 68; Force falls to the lot only
of the privileged few, but perseverance
can be practiced by the most insignifi-
cant (Swetchine), 438; Theories and
plans of life are fair and commendable
(Emerson), 459.

Personal adornment. See Dress.
Persuasion: Sweet persuasion wins the
easy to believe (Pythagoras), 87. See,
also, Firmness.

Petitioners: Give respectful hearing to
petitioners (Ptah-hotep), 35; The man of
sin is he confessed who spurns the sup-
pliant (Hesiod), 73.

Piety. See Religious injunctions.
Pitt, William, Earl of Chatham, Letters to
his nephew, 387.

Pittacus, saying of, 76.

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Pity. See Benevolence, Mercy, Cruelty.
Pleasure. Amusement. Recreation. -
Diversions: He who amuses himself all
day long keeps not his fortune (Ptah-
hotep), 38; He that loveth pleasure shall
be a poor man (Proverbs), 55; A man
hath no better thing than to eat, drink,
and be merry (Ecclesiastes), 61; Abstain
from dancing, music, singing and stage
plays (Buddhist commandments), 78; He
who lives without looking for pleasure,
Mâra will not overthrow.
Leave the
small pleasure and look to the great
(Dhammapada), 82, 84; Impossible to be
a lover of pleasure and a lover of Divin-
ity (Pythagoras), 93, 94; Guard most
carefully against pleasure, because we
are not impartial judges of it (Aristotle),
111; He that denies himself lawful plea-
sures increases the surety of resisting the
unlawful (Thomas à Kempis), 202; Look
upon pain and pleasure with an eye
equally regular (Montaigne), 251; Use
pastime as the word importeth (Lyly),
262; If thou desire time should not pass
too fast, use not too much pastime
Let recreation be manly, moderate,
seasonable, lawful (Quarles), 282, 290;
Spill not the morning in recreations;
for sleep itself is a recreation (Fuller),
307; To turn our whole life into a holi-
day destroyeth pleasure (Halifax), 320;
A mastery of passions will afford a con-
stant pleasure greater than vicious en-
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as are merely innocent, and have no-
thing else to recommend them, are be-
low reasonable creatures (Addison), 354;
The love of pleasure is sure to enslave
whoever does not resist the first allure-
ments (Chatham), 387; The happy man
o'erlooks the world. She scorns his
pleasures, for she knows them not (Cow-
per), 394; What amusements are to be
taken, and when, is the great matter.

Let your recreations be manful, not
sinful (Washington), 400, 404; Little joys
refresh us constantly like house-bread
(Richter), 426; Not pleasure, but free-
dom from pain, is what the wise man
will aim at (Schopenhauer), 442; Indulge
in lawful pleasures of mind, heart, or
senses with gratitude and moderation
(Lacordaire), 453. See, also, Happiness,
Merriment.

Pole, William de la, Duke of Suffolk. Let-
ter to his son, 200.

Politeness. See Courtesy, Manners.
Political duty: Promptly pay your taxes
(Confucius), 101; It is as hard to be a
true politician as to be truly moral
(Bacon), 265; Meddle not with govern-
ment (Penn), 335; Mitigating the fierce-
ness of party is an employment suited to
a reasonable nature (Addison), 353; Love
your neighbor as yourself, and your coun-
try more (Jefferson), 410.
Polonius to Laertes, 281.

Poor, Treatment of the. See Giving Be-
nevolence, Mercy, Oppression.
Pope, Alexander. The happy man, 145.
Popularity. See Reputation.
Poverty. See Riches.
Practice.
Praise. See Flattery, Censure.
Prayer. See Religious injunctions
Prejudice. See Sincerity.

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no man's folly and ignorance (Rhodes),
207, 208; Contemn no poor man, mock
no simple man (Ascham), 219; Be not
haughty towards the old, the infirm, &c.

tremble lest you be as unfortunate
(Mexican precept), 222, 226; If thou
seest anything in thyself which may
make thee proud, look a little further,
&c. (Quarles), 292; Shun pride and base-
ness, tutors to contempt, of yourself and
others (Osborne), 294; A truly virtuous
man prides himself on nothing (La
Rochefoucauld), 311; One kind of pride
is as much a virtue as the other is a vice
(Halifax), 319; Have courage to speak to
a friend in a seedy coat.... To own
that you are poor
to laugh at your
personal defects.
... to wear your old
garments, &c. (Stanislaus), 357, 358;
Pride costs more than hunger, thirst, and
cold (Jefferson), 411; A great mistake:
to hold oneself too high and rate oneself
too cheap (Goethe), 414; We have two
great vices to beat down, pride and sen-
suality (Lacordaire), 453. See, also, Hu-
mility.

Privacy He lives happily that lives hid-
denly or privately. . . . It doubles man's
life (Penn), 334; The happy man. . .
doomed to an obscure but tranquil state,
is pleased with it (Cowper), 394.
Profanity: Thou shalt not take the name
of the Lord thy God in vain (Decalogue),
42; Ye shall not swear by my name
(Leviticus), 44; Buddhistic command
against, 79; Beware of cursing (Wyclif),
197; Let never oath be heard to come
out of your mouth (Sidney),"247.
Profusion. See Expenditure.
Promises: He that sweareth to his own

hurt and changeth not (Psalm), 46, 411;
Pay that which thou vowest (Ecclesi-
astes), 58; Let not bill, witness, or pos-
session be stronger in your sight than a
promise by word of mouth (Maimonides),
167; Rarely promise, constantly perform
(Penn), 328; Undertake not what you

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cannot perform, but be careful to keep
your promise (Washington), 404.
Prosperity. — Adversity. - Fortune: Be-
havior in prosperity (Ptah-hotep), 38;
In the day of prosperity be joyful, and
in the day of adversity consider: God
hath made the one side by side with the
other....
The race is not to the swift.
Remember the days of darkness
(Ecclesiastes), 61, 62; Whether fortune
comes or goes take no notice of her
(Seneca), 141; If God send adversity,
accept it patiently. If prosperity,
thank him humbly (St. Louis), 174; So
use prosperity that adversity may not
abuse thee. Seest thou good days?
prepare for evil times (Quarles), 290,
292; It requires greater virtues to sup-
port good than bad fortune (La Roche-
foucauld), 310. See, also, Fortune.
Proverbs, selections from the Book of, 5,
6, 47.
Prudence.
Forethought.
Reckless-
ness Let wary thought each enterprise
forerun.... After long consultation, en-
gage in speaking or acting (Pythagoras),
88,90; Whatsoever thou takest in hand,
remember the end. . . . Go not in a
way wherein thou mayest fall... Put
all in writing (Ecclesiasticus), 118, 124,
125; The prudent man thinks before he
acts (Thomas à Kempis), 203; Accustom
the mind to judge the proportion and
value of things. . . . Beware of being
carried to things beyond our strength.
...Do not engage too peremptorily in
anything (Bacon), 268, 269; Do not de-
spise an evil because it is small. . . .
Have no days of carelessness; destiny
loves to play tricks. . . . Look into the
inside of things. Keep always some-
thing behind in store (Gracian), 287;
Wise venturing is the most commend-
able part of prudence (Halifax), 315;
Have courage to be content with small
profits (Stanislaus), 358; Use not to-
day what to-morrow may want (Chester-
field), 363; What we plan, what we un-
dertake, should be so clearly mapped
out, &c. . . . Distinguish between what
is attainable and what is not (Goethe),
414, 415; Better debate a question with-
out settling it than settle it without de-
bate (Joubert), 419; To do what we do
carelessly is to lose time inevitably (Swet-

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chine), 438; May prudence, fortitude,
and truth, erect your brow (Burns), 423;
Prudence is at the beginning of all the
cardinal virtues (Lacordaire), 452.
Psalm, The Fifteenth, 46, 410.
Ptah-hotep, the precepts of, 1, 32.
Public opinion. See Opinion, public.
Punctuality: A necessary part of good
manners is a punctual observance of
time (Swift), 350.

Purity. See Chastity.

Purpose: The masterpiece of man is to
know how to live to purpose (Montaigne),
250; Imitate nature, which does nothing
in vain (Bacon), 269; Be busy to pur-
pose; for a busy man and a man of busi-
ness are two different things (Penn), 340;
Let every man ask himself with which of
his faculties he can somehow influence
his age (Goethe), 416; The hero is he
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ing art is oft an erring guide.
using reason as guide you will avoid
crimes (Pythagoras), 87, 92; Socrates
became perfect, improving himself by
everything, attending to nothing but rea-
son (Epictetus), 153; If thou findest
anything better than thy own mind's
self-satisfaction in things done according
to right reason, turn to it (Marcus Aure-
lius), 159; I will employ my life in cul-
tivating my reason and advancing in the
knowledge of truth (Descartes), 298; He

that doth not use his reason is a tame
beast; he that abuses it is a wild one
(Halifax), 316; Let memory fail so long
as you can rely on your judgment (Goe-
the), 415; Whose law is reason; who
depends upon that law (Wordsworth),

429.

Rebuke. See Reproof.
Recklessness.
Recreation. See Pleasure.

See Prudence.

Refinement: Judge refinement by the test
of conscience. . . What is base no

polish can make sterling (Cowper), 396.
See, also, Taste.

Reformation. See Self-improvement, Self-
control.

Refusing: A gilded No satisfies more than

a dry Yes (Gracian), 285.

Regret: Let the past be past forever
(Goethe), 416.

Religious injunctions: (Decalogue), 42;
(Leviticus), 44; (Proverbs), 48; (Eccle-
siastes), 58, 62, 63; (Manu), 66, 67, 70;
(Hesiod), 73; (Buddha), 80; (Pythag-
oras), 86, 91; (Ahikar), 105; (Ecclesi-
asticus), 117, 125; (Jesus), 133, 134, 135;
(Welsh Triads), 171; (St. Louis), 174;
(La Tour), 190; (Wyclif), 195; (Suffolk),
200; (Ascham), 219; (Mexican), 222;
(Wyatt), 231, 233, 236; (Burleigh), 239;
(Sidney), 245; (Raleigh), 258; (Lyly),
263; (Essex-Bacon), 275: (Wotton), 283;
(Quarles), 291; (Browne), 300; (Penn),
330, 332, 333, 336; (Fénelon), 343; (Addi-
son), 353; (Stanislaus), 358; (Edwards),
366-374; (Franklin), 382; (Chatham),
389, 390; (Jefferson), 410; (Burns), 422,
423; (Lacordaire), 453-454. See, also,
Profanity, Commandments.

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monition: Better the rebuke of the wise
than the song of fools (Ecclesiastes), 60;
Take rebuke patiently (Rhodes), 207;
Take all admonitions thankfully (Wash-
ington), 403. See, also, Correction.
Reputation. Popularity: A good name
better than precious ointment (Ecclesi-
astes), 59; Get the love of the congre-
gation (Ecclesiasticus), 115; I advise thee
not to affect or neglect popularity too
much (Burleigh), 243; Popularity is a
crime from the moment it is sought.
The invisible thing called a good

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