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such infamous marriages happen, especially with respect to those that are under age? And as to those of full age, if they cannot marry clandestinely, there is nothing in this Bill that can prevent their contracting such a marriage in a regular manner by licence; for the ecclesiastical officer never does, nor indeed can refuse to grant a licence upon demand, if affidavit be made, that the parties are of full age, and that there is no legal objection to their being married, which the reputation of a man being a rogue, or a woman being a prostitute, is not. I cannot therefore think, that we ought to add to the size of our statute book, already too voluminous, by making a new law for preventing what can but very rarely happen; and much less do I think, that we should for this purpose run the risk of introducing one of the greatest misfortunes that can happen to society; and that this will be the case I shall endeavour to demonstrate, when I come to consider the consequences of the Bill now under our consideration; but in pursuance of the method I have laid down, must first consider the design of the Bill. As the foundation of the Bill, Sir, is threefold, so the design must of course be threefold, that is to say, to prevent polygamy: to render the proof of marriage more certain and easy, in order to prevent disputes about the legitimacy or illegitimacy of children; and to prevent clandestine marriages. As to the first, this Bill will be so far from answering the design, that, in my opinion, it will render polygamy much more frequent than it is at present; for it prescribes so many formalities for rendering a marriage good and valid in law, that a cunning fellow will always take care to have some of them omitted, by which means he will prevent its being in the power of the law to convict him, or to subject him to any punishment; and as has been already observed, every rakish young fellow may marry several times before he comes of age, without being in the least danger of punishment, or of being made to suffer either in purse or person; for though a young woman might, perhaps, have an action and recover damages against a man of full age, who, under a promise of marriage, or under pretence of a sham marriage, debauched her, yet if he was under age when he did so, she could recover no damages, for he could certainly plead his non-age to any such action; and even supposing a man to be of full age when he was guilty

of such a villainous imposition upon an ignorant love-sick maiden, as there can be no adequate recompence for the loss of a man's honour or a woman's virtue, an action of damages would be but an uncom fortable relief for a woman of any character; nay, if the affair had been kept but tolerably secret, she would rather submit patiently to the indignity, than seek for reparation in such a public and mercenary way. This men will be but too apt to trust to, and therefore, I am persuaded, that a few years hence many a young woman will be debauched under the pretence of a sham-marriage, or a written promise of marriage; for though those of the present generation may remember something of the law, and be a little cautious, yet the young women of the next will be as ignorant and as regardless of it, as they now are of our laws against wearing cambrics.

Thus, Sir, it is evident, I think, that this Bill will rather defeat than answer what I have stated as the first design of it, and which, in my opinion, is the most laudable design, the most desirable end. And as to the proof of marriage, how far the register by this Bill to be established will answer this purpose, I shall not at present pretend to form any certain judgment; but this I am sure of, that so far as relates to this register, the Bill is entirely a new Bill; and I must be of opinion, that such an important regulation, a regulation upon which the legitimacy of all the children of the next generation will depend, ought not to be thus passed per saltum, as it will be if the present question be determined in the affirmative. I think, we ought to take a little more time to consider of it: nay, I think, we ought to leave it for one summer at least to be considered of by our constituents; especially as we find, that some of the lawyers amongst us are in a doubt, whether this register, though kept in the most formal and regular manner, will be a full proof of the validity of any marriage therein entered. For my own part, as it is not declared in any part of the Bill, that such register book shall be a proof, or even a presumption of the truth of every entry made therein, I am very much afraid, that our courts below will require some further proof, that all the solemnities required by this Bill were duly observed; and if they do, it will render the proof of marriage more difficult and uncertain than it is by the present practice.

Even as to the register itself, Sir, I am afraid, that our incumbents will be often under great difficulties about making the entry, when the parties happen to live in parishes remote from each other, which is very often the case in the country: for if they are married by proclamation of banns, how shall the incumbent of the church where they come to be married know, that the banns were regularly proclaimed in the church of the parish where the other party resides, and where he has not, perhaps, any friend or acquaintance? They may bring him a false certificate; and if he upon the faith of it enters the marriage in his register, he may afterwards find himself indicted, and must run the risk of being condemned to be hanged for having made a false entry in his register; for what will not a lover do to obtain a beautiful young lady of a great fortune? What will not a revengeful father do, when he finds, that his daughter was married at a church 100 miles off, and an entry made in the register, as if she had been married by proclamation of banns in his parish church, though none such were ever proclaimed; again, if the marriage is to be by licence, the incumbent may know, that the party who resides in his parish is of age, or that the parents have consented: but how shall he be certainly informed of this, as to the other party, who resides, perhaps, in a very distant parish? In short, Sir, if I were an incumbent of a parish, I would not, after this Bill takes place, perform the ceremony of marriage between any two persons whatever, unless I personally knew, not only both the parties, but the relations of both the parties; and what an inconvenience this may be I leave to gentlemen to consider.

Now, Sir, with regard to the third design of this Bill, I shall grant that, I believe it will be effectual for preventing any future marriage without a proclamation of banns or a licence; but if a proper register of marriages were established, I can see no necessity either for a licence, or a proclamation of banns; and as it now seems to be the unanimous opinion of this House, that such a register ought to be appointed, there is not so much as a shadow of reason for carrying this third design into execution, bat a great many strong reasons against it. Clandestine marriages, or what I shall now call, marriages without the consent of parents or relations, may affect the pride or the avarice of the rich; but I have shewn that every kind of such mar

riages, except one, are rather a public benefit than a public evil; therefore in so far, they ought not to be prevented by a public law; and as to the only one that can any way be called a public evil, those of this sort so rarely happen, that they do not deserve to be taken any notice of by the legislature, especially as they generally proceed from some neglect or wrong conduct in the parents, with regard to the care and education of their children. But even supposing that such marriages happened much oftener than they do, is it possible by laws to prevent all the misfortunes that are brought upon individuals by misconduct? Would you prevent such misfortunes by bringing a misfortune upon the society itself? Because some men waste their substance and ruin their families by their extravagance, would you therefore put it out of the power of any man to dispose of his estate? Because some men make very whimsical, and really very unjust wills, would you therefore put it out of the power of any man to dispose of his property by will? And because some people rashly contract infamous marriages; will you therefore put marriage under such regulations as will in a great measure prevent it, amongst the most numerous and most useful part of your people?

This, Sir, leads me to the last head I proposed, which was to consider the consequences of the Bill now under our consideration; and upon this subject I must say, I was surprised to hear the hon. gentleman who spoke last draw any argument in favour of this Bill from the laws of Holland; for the people of this country are so very different from the people in the United Provinces, in their disposition, their temper, and their humour, that a regulation which in Holland has been found to contribute to the public good, may in this country be productive of the most fatal consequences; and besides, the form of government in the two countries, as well as the religion, is so very different, that no regulation in the one can ever be made a precedent for the other. In Holland not only every province but every town is a sort of sovereignty within itself; and their religion, especially with regard to marriage, is much the same as it was in this country in the days of Oliver Cromwell, when neither the marriage contract, nor the ceremony was supposed to have any sanctity or religion in its nature; which is a doctrine that, I hope, will never

be propagated among the vulgar, espe- |
cially the women of this country; for the
vows of wedlock, like the vows of virginity,
I am afraid, are too often broke, though
in churches made. The Dutch, Sir, are
naturally a cool, patient people, and not
given to sudden changes, either in their
tempers or passions; therefore the ren-
dering a proclamation of banns necessary
may do very well in that country; but in
this, where the people are naturally san-
guine, impatient, and as apt to change as
the air they breathe, I am convinced, that
such a regulation would be the cause of
numberless mischiefs; yet even the Dutch
have never ventured to go so far in this
respect, as is proposed by this Bill; for
the banns may there be proclaimed on a
holiday, as well as a Sunday; and conse-
quently the proclamation may be finished,
and the parties married in a week or ten
days time.

breach of such a promise is inestimable, and cannot be compensated by any sum of money, unless the plaintiff agrees to accept of it. For this reason espousals, or a mutual engagement to marry, are very frequent in Holland, and often entered into before the magistrates in the townhouse, after which it is very common for the parties to cohabit together as if they were married: nay, if a gentleman gives a lady what they call a trow-brief, that is a promise in writing to marry her, she makes no scruple to admit him to her bed; which is a very convenient custom for the ladies; because if after that, she does not like him for a husband, she throws her trow-brief into the fire, and is under no obligation to marry him.

Thus, Sir, we see how favourable the laws of Holland are for the fair sex ; but with regard to them this Bill will be a most crucl law. It is impossible to prevent an innocent credulous young creature from trusting to the solemn promises of the man she loves, and every man may find twenty reasons for convincing a young woman who loves him, of the danger of their marrying at that time. It would therefore be vain to imagine that such promises will not hereafter be made, and still more vain to

Then, Sir, with regard to licences, whatever may be the strictness of law in Holland, I have been informed that the practice is different; for the parties may have a licence, upon the first application, from the magistrates of the town where they reside, or from the court of Holland; and though I have not been certainly informed, yet I have rea-imagine that they will not be too often son to believe, that a licence there does not cost so many pence, as it here costs shillings; therefore the poor may easily, and for a very small expence, be married in Holland without proclamation of banns; whereas, if this Bill passes into a law, the expence of such a marriage will very soon amount to 40s. or two guineas: for a licence cannot be now had under four or five and twenty shillings, besides the fees to the parson, &c. and after licences are made so necessary, the fees of both will certainly be increased.

But what makes the most material difference, Sir, between the laws of Holland, (for upon this occasion I have enquired a little into them) and what is proposed by this Bill, is in what relates to promises of marriage, and the marriage of persons under age. In Holland, a promise of marriage is so sacred, that the parties must perform, if they were of age when the promise was made, and the same can be proved by the oath of the party, by writing, or by a sufficient number of witnesses; otherwise the judge will imprison the party refusing, or determine that the parties shall in every respect be deemed as if they were married; for they think that the

trusted to: he must be a man very ignorant of the world who can imagine the former, and I must think him a very unfortunate man who can imagine the latter, because it is plain he never enjoyed the pleasure of having the good graces of any young woman whatsoever. As the law now stands, if a treacherous young fellow should refuse to perform such a promise, the young woman who trusted to it may sue him in the ecclesiastical court, where she may put him to his oath, and if he confesses the promise, or she can otherwise prove it, he must either marry her, or be imprisoned upon the writ de excommunicato capiendo. But if this Bill passes into a law, she can have no relief: the statute of frauds and perjuries will be a bar to her action at common law, unless she has been so cautious as to take a promise in writing: even then, if he was under age, his nonage will be a bar to her action; and supposing him of age, she must submit to have a price put upon her honour and virtue by a jury of tradesmen, few of whom are much accustomed to deal in that commodity; for even suppose she had taken a bond, I doubt much if our courts of law would give her any greater share of the

penalty, than the jury should find by their verdict. From all which I must conclude, that this Bill, if passed into a law, and not soon repealed, will be the cause of numberless villanies among the men, and of the ruin of a multitude of young women.

impossible for her to do so, without the consent of an indigent and mercenary father? Shall we render it next to impossible for her to do so, even though she has neither father nor mother alive? For a gentleman marrying a beautiful young girl of little or no fortune, is generally so much laughed at by his companions, that no man would chuse to have it made public before-hand, by a proclamation of banns, or an application to the court of Chancery for appointing her a guardian ; and the necessity of his doing so may very probably prevent his making her happy, or induce him to render her miserable by debauching her. Sir, I must look upon this Bill as one of the most cruel enterprizes against the fair sex that ever entered into the heart of man, and if I were concerned in promoting it, I should expect to have my eyes torn out by the young women of the first country town I passed through; for against such an enemy I could not surely hope for the protection of the gentlemen of our army.

Now, Sir, with regard to the marriage of persons under age, I shall grant that in Holland, where marriage is considered only as a civil contract, it is void, if contracted against the declared will of the parents; but if they do not declare their dissent, nor any fraud used for preventing their knowledge of it, the marriage is good, if the husband be above 14, and the wife above 12; and even when the parents declare their dissent, the magistrate may interpose, and if they cannot give a sufficient reason for such dissent, the magistrate may authorize the marriage whether they will or no. But by this Bill we are to go a great deal farther; for the express consent of the parents must be had, otherwise the marriage, if by licence, is to be void, and let the father's dissent be never so selfish, capricious, or cruel, no magistrate, no But, Sir, of all the consequences that power whatsoever can authorise a marriage must ensue from the passing of this Bill either by licence or proclamation of banns. into a law, that of preventing marriage and This is really establishing such a tyranni-promoting fornication among our induscal power in the father, as will, I am persuaded, be the ruin of many children, especially such as may have a father under the government or influence of a cruel stepmother. Then, Sir, with regard to the consent of guardians, in the province of Holland, their consent is so far from being necessary, that marriage eva without their consent puts an end to their power; for from that moment the ward is deemed to be of full age, and may act as such; and the reason given for this regulation, which, indeed, is peculiar to the province of Holland, is, because it is for the benefit of commerce. But by this Bill, if the marriage be by licence, the express consent of the guardian, or a decree of the court of Chancery, must be had, let the person under age be never so poor; and if such a person has no guardian appointed by the will of the father, their marriage by licence seems to be absolutely prohibited, without previously incurring the expence of having a guardian appointed by the court of Chancery,

Let us consider, Sir, that the flower of youth, the highest bloom of a woman's beauty, is, from 16 to 21: it is then that a young woman of little or no fortune has the best chance for disposing of herself to advantage in marriage; shall we make it

trious poor will be the most pernicious. We know how averse our people are to marriage by proclamation of banns, even now when they may be completed in a week or ten days: how much more averse will they be, when they cannot be completed under a month? Those who do not think this too long a time for a loving couple to wait for the completion of their wishes, must either have never felt the passion of love, or must be so old as to have entirely forgotten the passions of their youth, so as to be now callous to all passions but that of avarice, which is too often the domineering passion of old age. What, then, must our poor do? A licence they cannot pay for: Sir, they will certainly begin to cohabit together, as soon as they have given notice to the parson to proclaim the banns; and the man, especially, may be so cloyed with enjoyment before they are finished, as to refuse being married: thus both being initiated in fornication, may probably go on in the same way, and never think of marriage more; for the first barrier of virtue is to all men, and especially to women, the most difficult to surmount.

It is impossible to imagine, Sir, that any set of men would think of subjecting their country to so many inconveniences, for

the sake of preventing that sort of clandestine marriages which happen so rarely, and which may more effectually be prevented by a due care and a proper education of children. There must be some latent design, and that can only be a design to secure all the heiresses of the kingdom to the eldest sons of noble and rich families, in order thereby to establish that sort of aristocratical government, which, from the Conquest to the reign of Henry 7, was the plague of this country, and so often involved us in bloody civil wars; for I look upon this Bill only as the prelude to another Bill for restoring the old law of intails, as a much stronger argument may be drawn for the latter, from the misfortunes of families by the extravagance of an ancestor, than ever can be drawn for the former, from the misfortunes of families by the clandestine marriage of a son or daughter. Sir, if this Bill could any way contribute to secure all our rich heiresses to the eldest sons of noble reduced families, the argument might have some weight; but as a rich noble lord is as fond of having his eldest son married to a rich heiress as any poor lord can be, and as an avaricious father always will, and the court of Chancery, or a guardian always must prefer the former, the Bill will have a quite contrary effect. The poor nobility will become, as they are in Poland, attendants only upon the rich, and will serve to increase their power to transgress the laws and disturb the peace of their country.

I hope no gentleman will from any thing I have said suppose, that I am for encouraging children to be undutiful to thei: parents. I think children are in duty bound to consult their parents upon all occasions of importance, especially in that of their marriage, and even to curb their inclinations, if possible, when they find them disagreeable to their parents. But the duty is reciprocal: there is a duty owing by parents to their children, as well as by children to their parents; and an exact and affectionate performance of that duty on the side of the parent is the best way to secure it on the part of the child. If you establish a tyrannical power in the father, as you propose to do by this Bill, you will make many fathers forget that duty they owe to their children, and the consequence will be a neglect of duty on the other side, as soon as it is in their power. Therefore, to the many arguments I have before used, I must add

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this, that for preserving the duty of children to their parents, I must be against passing this Bill into a law, and consequently must give my negative to the question.

The Earl of Hillsborough :

Sir; I am very sensible of the danger I am in, when I rise up to speak after the hon. gentleman who spoke last: his manner of speaking is so engaging, there is such music in his voice, that it pleases the ear, though it does not inform the understanding: at the same time he expresses his sentiments in such beautiful terms, is so ingenious in finding out arguments for supporting his opinion, and states those arguments in so strong a light, that he is always most deservedly heard with attention, and even with a sort of prejudice in favour of every thing he says. But yet I am so fully convinced of his having upon this occasion adopted the wrong side of the question, that, I think I may venture to shew the impropriety of most of his arguments; and indeed, there was not, in my opinion, one argument he made use of against this Bill, but what militates as strongly against every law now subsisting for preventing clandestine marriages; therefore, if I thought there was any weight in those arguments, I should move for leave to bring in a Bill for repealing all the penal laws we have against such marriages, in order to leave every boy of 14, and every girl of 12, at full liberty to. run to the next marriage shop, (for I suppose we should soon have one in every street) and be married when, and to whom any sudden start of fancy should direct them.

But, Sir, I have always thought marriage a very serious affair, therefore, I think, it ought to be gone about with discretion, with deliberation, and even with a religious awe and reverence. A mutual love between the two parties contracting marriage, is, I shall grant, a very proper ingredient; but then it ought to be a sedate and fixed love, and not a sudden flasli of passion which dazzles the understanding, but is in a moment extinguished: the happiness of a marriage founded upon such love can never be lasting, and accordingly we find from experience that it seldom proves so. Therefore our religion as well as our laws have very wisely provided, that no such marriages shall ever be contracted; and when the mutual love is fixed upon a solid foundation, that is to

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