guessed wrongly, his patience never having been perturbed, immaculate in speech, in temper, in habits, do not marry him. Why? Because you would enact a swindle. What would you do with a perfect man-you who are not perfect yourself? And how dare you hitch your imperfection fast on such supernatural excellence? What a companion you would make for an angel! In other words, there are no perfect men. There never was but one perfect pair, and they slipped down the banks of Paradise together. We occasionally find a man who says he never sins. We know he lies when he says it. We have had financial dealings with two or three perfect men, and they cheated us wofully. Do not, therefore, look for an immaculate husband, for you will not find him. TALMAGE. Not Easy to Give a Daughter in Marriage. If you think it is easy to give up a daughter in marriage, though it be with brightest prospects, you will think differently when the day comes. To have all along watched her from infancy to girlhood, and from girlhood to womanhood, studious of her welfare, her slightest illness an anxiety, and her presence in your home an everincreasing joy, and then have her go away to some other home-aye, all the redolence of orange-blossoms, the chime of marriage bells, the rolling of the wedding march in full diapason and the hilarious congratulations of your friends can not make you forget that you are suffering an irreparable loss. But you know it is all right, and you have a remembrance of an embarkation just like it twenty-five or thirty years ago, in which you were one of the parties; and, suppressing as far as possible your sadness, you say: "Good-by."-TALMAGE. Guard Your Affections. Is there anything more bitterly patent, when we look over the face of our modern life, than that a large part of the misery of human existence comes from the all but wanton recklessness with which one sex flings down the treasure of its love to be too often spurned and trampled upon by the other? And therefore, O young and trusting heart, guard the pearl of your innocence; guard the pearl of your reverence; but most of all, guard the pearl of your affections!-H. C. Potter. My Bride That Is to Be. O soul of mine, look out and see As one might draw a veil aside In attitude as gracefully As my fair bride that is to be; Nor ever Autumn's leaves of brown The path of love she loiters down. I know not if her eyes are bright To make their hidden meaning clear, Her face is like a night of June, Of stars, with envy lighting them. And like a wild cascade her hair And open arms and heaving breast, Nay, foolish heart and blinded eyes! In such a form as bent above Of kindly deed and prayerful thought, That ever over all distress May beam the light of cheerfulness; Oh, let her come like this to me-- My bride-my bride that is to be! Good Advice. J. W. RILEY. My advice is: Marry a man who is a fortune in himself. Houses, lands and large inheritance are well enough, but the wheel of fortune turns so rapidly that through some investment all these in a few years may be gone. There are some things, however, which are a perpetual fortune-good manners, geniality of soul, kindness, intelligence, sympathy, courage, perseverance, industry and whole-heartedness. Marry such a one, and you have married a fortune, whether he has an income now of $50,000 a year or an income of $1,000. A bank is secure according to its capital stock, and not to be judged by the deposits for a day or a week. A man is rich according to his sterling qualities, and not according to the mutability of circumstances, which may leave with him a large amount of resources today and withdraw them tomorrow. If a man is worth nothing but money, he is poor indeed. If a man has upright character, he is rich. Property may come and go; he is independent of the markets. Nothing can buy him out; nothing can sell him out. He may have more money one year than another, but his better fortunes never vacillate.-TAL MAGE. A Well-Matched Couple. A well-matched couple carry a joyful life between them, as the two spies carried the cluster of Eshcol. |