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instances, that this may fail. Can a woman forget her sucking
child, that she should not have compassion on the child of her
womb? The little tender creature, that she has borne in her
body, that she has been used to lay in her bosom; the poor in-
nocent that never offended her, that has all his dependence upon
her; whom nature would therefore prompt her most resolutely
to defend, most tenderly to cherish; can she forget it? Yea,
they may forget, saith the Lord*: This strange case may hap-
pen; it may happen in repeated instances.—Thus may our
dearest friends, and even our parents themselves, abandon us
through their own unkindness. But be they ever so constant
and affectionate, it is certain,
2. They may be taken away from us by the stroke of divine

providence.

Whilst we are in the most delightful manner conversing with our friends, God may bring us into such circumstances, that we shall see ourselves obliged in duty to quit the dearest of them, possibly even contrary to their judgment and advice, as well as their importunate intreaties; or they may see themselves obliged, on the same principles, to quit us; so that we may seldom have the opportunity of seeing each other, and enjoying the pleasure of mutual converse.

But the severest trial is, when God sees fit to remove them by death. When that awful messenger gives the summons, we must part, though ever so desirous of continuing together. None can by any means deliver his brother from going down to the grave, nor give to God a ransom for himt, though he should offer his own life under that view. Our Fathers, where are they ? And, I may add, where are many of our brethren of the same age, and once in the same stations of life with ourselves ? What multitudes of them are already removed by death! Perhaps more than are left behind. We have followed them to the grave; we have left them in the dust, and Their places that knew them, know them no moreş: And if we are not quickly taken away ourselves, we must expect, that our breaches, will soon be multiplied upon us; and that nothing will remain of those dear creatures, whom we now behold with tenderness, and with transport, but a mournful remembrance that we once enjoyed them, and a despair of recovering them again, till we meet in the eternal world.

Isa. xlix. 15,

+ Psal. xlix. 7, 8,

Zech. i. 5.

S Job. vii, 10.

I will only add one very obvious reflection upon this head, and then proceed to the next. May the dearest of our friends so soon forsake us ? Then how

careful should we be, that we do not value them too highly, and love them too fondly?

We find in scripture, that the inconstancy, and the mortality of human nature, are each of them urged as an argument against trusting in man. Thus we are cautioned to Take heed every one of his neighbour, and not to trust in any brother, for every brother will utterly supplant, and every neighbour will walk with slanders*. And elsewhere we are bid to Cease from man, whose breath is in his nostrils ; for wherein is he to be accounted oft ? And how indeed can we reckon on any thing as certain, which is suspended on so uncertain a life? The words of Solomon are applicable to friends, as well as to riches, when he says, Wilt thou set thine eyes upon that which is not? for they make themselves wings, and flee away, often swiftly and irrecoverably, as an eagle towards heavenj. To set them up as idols therefore, in the place of God, is the readiest way to provoke him to remove or imbitter them; and then our Own iniquity, in this respect, will correct usg. Our confident expectation from them will increase our perplexity and our shame, if they should forsake us through their own unkindness; and our excessive fondness for them will add new pangs to the agonies of a last separation. One way, or another, they will prove Broken reeds, that will not only fail and sink under us, but will go into our hand and pierce it|| with a wound, which will be deep and painful, in proportion to the stress with which we have leaned upon them. On the whole, then, let us love our friends heartily, but let us love them cautiously, as changeable, and as mortal creatures ; and from a conviction, that it is possible they may forsake us, let us make it our greatest care to secure an interest in such consolations, as may be a support to us when they do. Which leads me to the second observation :

II. That when good men are abandoned by their dearest friends, they may find more in God, than they have lost in them.

So David, in the text, declares his assurance, that when his father and his mother forsook him, then the Lord would take him up ; i. e. would approve himself a friend and a father to him. 'And if we be christians indeed, we may promise our.

• Jer. ix. 4.

# Isai. ii. 22. Prov. xxiii. 5.

$ Jer. ü, 19. Isa. xxxvi. 6.

selves all that tenderness and care from him, which David, and other saints of old, expected and found. He hath said to every one of us, I will never leave thee nor forsake thee*; and for our peculiar support under the loss of the dearest and most useful relatives, he has more particularly added, A Father of the fatherless, and a Judge of the widows, is God in his holy habitationt.

When our friends are dead, we are generally more sensible of their value, than we were before: But let the tenderest heart, under the immediate impression of this severe calamity, set itself to paint the character of a departed friend in all its most amiable colours ; let it reckon up all the advantages, which fondness could have taught it to hope for; and I will answer for it, that all this, and a great deal more, is to be found in God. Let the dejected orphan, that is even now weeping over the dust of a parent, yea, of both its parents, say, what these parents, in the greatest supposable advantages of character and circumstance, could have done for its support, and its consolation ; and the complaints of the most pathetic sorrow shall suggest thoughts, which may serve in a great measure, to answer themselves, and to engage the mind joyfully to acquiesce in the divine care, though deserted by the best of parents, or any other friends, however hopeful or useful.

“ Alas,” will a dutiful and affectionate child be ready to say, in such a circumstance,“ do you ask, what my parents were? They were my dearest, my kindest, my most valuable friends :-Their counsels guided me ;-their care protected me ;—their daily converse was the joy of my life ;--their tender condolance revived me under my sorrows";—their liberal bounty supplied my necessities. Is it to be inquired, what they were ? Say rather, what were they not? And now they are gone, where must I seek such friends ? And how justly may I say, that my dearest comforts and hopes lie buried with their precious l'emains.”

Let us more particularly survey each of these thoughts, and consider with how much greater advantage each of these particulars is to be found in the paternal care and favour of God.

1. Could your parents have advised you in difficulties and per

plexities? God is much more able to do it.
You will perhaps say,

“Our poor giddy unpractised minds

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have been hurried with a variety of schemes and projects, and we have soon found ourselves bewildered and lost; but then it has been the greatest pleasure to us to apply to our parents, from whose more advanced age, and riper experience, we might well hope for considerable assistance. We were sure they would not upbraid our ignorance, or despise us for our weakness; but would give us their best advice, with endearing tenderness, and a cordial concern for our welfare.” I allow, my friends, that if they were wise and good, which we now suppose, they were valuable counsellors indeed ; and that it was your duty, and your happiness, to use them as such while living, and as such to lament them, now they are here no more. Yet, were they ever so prudent, you must still acknowledge they were fallible creatures. They could only form probable conjectures concerning the future consequences of things ; and as those conjectures were always precarious, so, no doubt, they were sometimes erroneous; and you were, perhaps, in some instances, misled by their mistaken apprehensions: But the only wise God knows the end from the beginning ; his views of the most distant futurities are not conjectural, but certain ; and his wisdom is far more superior to that of the most sagacious and experienced mortal, than the wisdom of such a mortal can be superior to that of an infant. It is He that teaches man knowledge*, in whatever degree he possesses it. He instructed our parents, that they might instruct us; and he has expressly promised his direction to all those that humbly seek it. The meek will he guide in judgment, and the meek will he teach his wayt. You may therefore, according to his own instruction and command, cry unto him, My father, thou art the guide of my youth I; and you will find him such a guide, as can give Wisdom to the simple, and to the young man knowledge and discretions. 2. Could your earthly parents have protected you from injuries?

God is much more able to do it.

Nature has implanted even in irrational animals such a regard to the safety of their offspring, that many of the most weak and timorvus of them become strangely courageous in their defence. The little bird, that will at other times fly from every noise and every motion, will hover over her young, when they are assaulted with danger; and, rather than she will forsake them will share in their ruin. It is easy to perceive the spirit of parents

• Psal. xciv. 10.

* Psal. xxv. 9.

Jer, iü. 4.

Prov. i. 4,

naturally rise on the least injury that is offered to their children, even sometimes when it is only accidental, and undesigned ; and all the professed enemies of their children, they of course reckon to be their own. Nor do they only watch over them in their infancy and childhood, to defend them from the many dangers which surround those tender days; but in more ad. vanced years, they are ready to use all their power, and their influence, to shelter them from the unworthy usage, which they might otherwise expect from an ill-natured world: And I own, it is a very melancholy thing for young people to lose such a guard, at a time when they are most exposed.

But surely the defence of the Almighty must be a much juster and nobler confidence. It is amazing to observe, in how condescending a manner he expresses his care for the protection of his people. In one place he says, He that toucheth you toucheth the apple of his eye *; and elsewhere ; He shall cover thee with his feathers, and under his wings shalt thou trustt; i.e, he shall defend thee, as the bird shelters her little, helpless brood, from the assault of any thing, that would injure, or destroy them. And could we desire a better guard? There are many seasons when our earthly parents must of necessity be separated from us; and a thousand calamities might overtake and destroy us, even in their presence, while they stood by helpless and amazed : But God is always with his children, and as there is no danger of ours unseen by him, there can be none, from which he is not able to deliver us. When David was forsaken by his father and mother, and surrounded with a whole army of inhuman enemies, he speaks of this as his comfort, The Lord is my light, and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid? Though an host should encamp against me, my heart shall not fear ; though war should rise against me, in this will I be confident I; for in his help I shall be safe, though I stood single against united legions. 3. Did you hope for agreeable entertainment in the company

of your earthly parents? You may expect far nobler pleasure in conversing with God.

I acknowledge, there is something peculiarly delightful in the company of a wise, a pious, and an indulgent parent; and I doubt not, but many of us can easily recollect it. Even in our infant-days, when we were fondly prattling to them, we,

* Zech, ïi. 8.

+ Psal. xci. 4.

I Psal. xxvü. 1, 3.

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